How strong do you believe in fate ?
I used to answer yes but things has changed so do my thoughts .
Fate is just a very minor part of a relationship , maintaining is the one that really counts.
Maintaining a relationship is never easy . Human tend to find the balance point of both parties and get frustrated when the ratio move to left or right .Human tend to take things for granted,human nature.
Your mid night call , telling me how can I overlook all the good things we had together , you cannot accept the decision I have made. I told you , I didn't want to repeat my reason again . My effort to maintain the relationship has ended , the balance point wasn't there thus the border line was formed. I told you I am tired, like seriously. After what I have stated , you told me there's no point for you to call me again. I wiped of what you said , which mean there are no reason for u to call other than only when we are in a relationship ? Reality strike. I can take it. Clean & Clear. After all we did shared most of ours together , we knew each other better than our siblings.
曾給你馴服到, 就像綿羊,何解會反咬你一下, 你知嗎?
一段感情如果累了,泪就会报到.
了结. 希望我们以后能看到对方的幸福.
Saturday, August 10, 2013
Wednesday, July 17, 2013
2013
This abandoned blog is back after more than half a year.
Hello me in 2013.
2013 , a year of the not so young me and continue to be older moving forward.
Where have I visited ? Hanoi
Vietnam , my 2nd visit this time from the previous visit to Ho Chi Minh. Hanoi this time , my overall summary of the trip : Fun + Crazy + Relaxing + Disaster = Awesomeness
Fun : The group of people that I went with started from hunting promo air tickets , planning itinerary , logistic arrangement , accommodation , awesome food hunting, taking care each other during the trip. Awesome ppl with wonderful trip.
Crazy : Cycling tour in Hanoi is CRAZIEEEE . I can't describe the traffic situation there in words , basically the traffic there are free and easy, go any direction you want to. Honk is a must on the road. We put our life in huge risk where your tiny bicycle is surrounded by motorbikes in all directions ( like uncountable). We are safe , TQ !
Relaxing: Cruise trip to Halong Bay . Peaceful . You totally do nothing on cruise besides eat , social , drink , enjoying the good view around and the cooling breeze , and yeah , this is life for that moment :) Not forget to mention the kayaking and the peak stop for the whole Halong Bay view , is worth climbing that hundreds steps for that view. That beauty .
Disaster : Well , the wonderful trip ended with a little disaster when we were at the night market. I was targeted by picked pocket , 3 long cut on my bag , I am really thankful that I did not lost anything , my bag organiser saved me from further lost. I have already paid full alert on my bag yet they still able to make it , how skillful . People , please be extra extra X 100000000 careful as I don't how much is needed but yeaaa..
Fat Burning
Always wanted to burn more fats but forever not achieving due to lazinesssss. ( Kill me)
Alright , in order to keep my motivation on I have been a good customer with Groupon . I purchased one month trial at Celebrity Gym ( July) , classes make me keep moving on ... bahhhhh... I CAN DO IT !
I bought another promo at Jazzercise for 10 session ( August) , alright now all well planned , no excuses for me being lazy anymore. For the month of Sept , 2 marathon run . Okay okay... 3 months planning in a row.. Hopefully all good.
Career
People around me been leaving / planning on doing something else. I am still here swinging left and right, what should I do ?
Readings
Suddenly I have books to read without buying them, and the contrast as below.
Book from girlfriend : < Calm life is not lonely>
Book from guyfriend: < Property purchase guidance>
Now you know the focus difference between girl & guy.
I have made a decision. A sad decision but should be a right one and its more firm when I saw my parents reaction , their eyes told me they agree with me.
So long , continue looking forward and is back to Me Time :)
Cheers !
Hello me in 2013.
2013 , a year of the not so young me and continue to be older moving forward.
Where have I visited ? Hanoi
Vietnam , my 2nd visit this time from the previous visit to Ho Chi Minh. Hanoi this time , my overall summary of the trip : Fun + Crazy + Relaxing + Disaster = Awesomeness
Fun : The group of people that I went with started from hunting promo air tickets , planning itinerary , logistic arrangement , accommodation , awesome food hunting, taking care each other during the trip. Awesome ppl with wonderful trip.
Crazy : Cycling tour in Hanoi is CRAZIEEEE . I can't describe the traffic situation there in words , basically the traffic there are free and easy, go any direction you want to. Honk is a must on the road. We put our life in huge risk where your tiny bicycle is surrounded by motorbikes in all directions ( like uncountable). We are safe , TQ !
Relaxing: Cruise trip to Halong Bay . Peaceful . You totally do nothing on cruise besides eat , social , drink , enjoying the good view around and the cooling breeze , and yeah , this is life for that moment :) Not forget to mention the kayaking and the peak stop for the whole Halong Bay view , is worth climbing that hundreds steps for that view. That beauty .
Disaster : Well , the wonderful trip ended with a little disaster when we were at the night market. I was targeted by picked pocket , 3 long cut on my bag , I am really thankful that I did not lost anything , my bag organiser saved me from further lost. I have already paid full alert on my bag yet they still able to make it , how skillful . People , please be extra extra X 100000000 careful as I don't how much is needed but yeaaa..
Fat Burning
Always wanted to burn more fats but forever not achieving due to lazinesssss. ( Kill me)
Alright , in order to keep my motivation on I have been a good customer with Groupon . I purchased one month trial at Celebrity Gym ( July) , classes make me keep moving on ... bahhhhh... I CAN DO IT !
I bought another promo at Jazzercise for 10 session ( August) , alright now all well planned , no excuses for me being lazy anymore. For the month of Sept , 2 marathon run . Okay okay... 3 months planning in a row.. Hopefully all good.
Career
People around me been leaving / planning on doing something else. I am still here swinging left and right, what should I do ?
Readings
Suddenly I have books to read without buying them, and the contrast as below.
Book from girlfriend : < Calm life is not lonely>
Book from guyfriend: < Property purchase guidance>
Now you know the focus difference between girl & guy.
I have made a decision. A sad decision but should be a right one and its more firm when I saw my parents reaction , their eyes told me they agree with me.
So long , continue looking forward and is back to Me Time :)
Cheers !
Saturday, December 1, 2012
1st Dec 2012
The last month of the year 2012 is here now .
What have I achieve ? What have I done ?
A lot of things going to be an end I suppose , in this year 2012. At lease Twilight Saga has ended with the Breaking Dawn II , it was a good movie , oh well.. after all it's a girls' movie . hehe..
Cold War was another good movie .
Few things to complete this month .
Hopefully I will have a beautiful closing this year , and then time to search for other opportunity. A good end perhaps ?
Are we going to make things better or continue being cold with lotsa ignorance ? It has been 2 years and again , what are our commitments for where there are no mutual understandings ? Tell me if I am wrong , I am lost.
I have just registered Toastmaster. A public speaking class. I hope its a good start to kill off my public speaking nervous.. bahhh ~ hehe .
I have also registered a 12km run on the 30 Dec 2012. The Newton Challenge 2012 . Don't ask me if I can make it , I will definitely try my very best to complete the 12km and to get the finishing medal . Ok yes ,I must do it and which means I need to start training from now on @.@
December is also the Christmas month ! wheeee ! I'm planning to get myself a smart phone as Christmas present, hmmmm... sounds good :) Or sounds like a good reason to spend more money ~ haha
This month , I will be attending 2 weddings dinner , and imagine I have friends at my age getting married , more red bombs coming ! haha
~Tsu~
What have I achieve ? What have I done ?
A lot of things going to be an end I suppose , in this year 2012. At lease Twilight Saga has ended with the Breaking Dawn II , it was a good movie , oh well.. after all it's a girls' movie . hehe..
Cold War was another good movie .
Few things to complete this month .
Hopefully I will have a beautiful closing this year , and then time to search for other opportunity. A good end perhaps ?
Are we going to make things better or continue being cold with lotsa ignorance ? It has been 2 years and again , what are our commitments for where there are no mutual understandings ? Tell me if I am wrong , I am lost.
I have just registered Toastmaster. A public speaking class. I hope its a good start to kill off my public speaking nervous.. bahhh ~ hehe .
I have also registered a 12km run on the 30 Dec 2012. The Newton Challenge 2012 . Don't ask me if I can make it , I will definitely try my very best to complete the 12km and to get the finishing medal . Ok yes ,I must do it and which means I need to start training from now on @.@
December is also the Christmas month ! wheeee ! I'm planning to get myself a smart phone as Christmas present, hmmmm... sounds good :) Or sounds like a good reason to spend more money ~ haha
This month , I will be attending 2 weddings dinner , and imagine I have friends at my age getting married , more red bombs coming ! haha
* ESC Dining at Ara Damansara , next to Symphony Building. A pleasant dining place :)
* The art of my colleague, and obviously I am the victim.
* Office desk decorated with some tiny creatures.
* The 12km run I was saying ...
* Some Christmas feel, ya ?
* Red Bomb
Sunday, November 11, 2012
Recent by Nov 2012
Normal routine
- Work
- Gym ( not effective enough , Michelin still with me)
- Home, spend time with family & BeE BeE
- The bf
- hangout with friends
Not so normal
- Wondering & Imagining
- Some flash back of the past
- Some planning on career
- Financial planning
New stuff
- IBM Hollywood Night ( I desperately got a dress on the night before the event , but I think it turns out not bad.. hehe) My dear colleague did a great performance , love it ! I had a really good night with your companion.
- First 5 km Run - Terry Fox ( Yeay ! good start)
- Few wine nights ( oh yes ~ wine )
- Few concerts (sing K) in a month. ( aha ~)
Look at that awesome body ~
BeE BeE's private pedicure time~
My India son is growing up :)
Lovely hair-do by my dearest pig friend , thank you !
Found this silly photo ! haha
Yes ! complete 5 km ! Happie !
Saturday, July 21, 2012
爱久见人心
梁静茹 的 新歌。 《爱久见人心》
简单的歌词，丰富的意义。
#
存一寸光陰 換一個世紀
摘一片苦心 釀一滴蜂蜜
用盡了全力 只為在一起
我愛不愛你 愛久見人心
#
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=czFJOzwl84o
简单的歌词，丰富的意义。
#
存一寸光陰 換一個世紀
摘一片苦心 釀一滴蜂蜜
用盡了全力 只為在一起
我愛不愛你 愛久見人心
#
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=czFJOzwl84o
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Happy Graduation My Dear Dog Friend !
On the 9th July 2012 , the dearest dog friend graduate with her Bachelor of Arts ( Honour) - Social Science / Political Science ... ( cannot remember the title.. lol ) from National University of Singapore . How great is that.. so proud of her.
Dear JY , appreciate that you allow us to celebrate / share one of your happiest moment , I mention here one of your happiest moment because you will have more and more in future. :D
The moment u walked out from the hall with your graduation suit , our smile ( ah bear , ah net & me) hang on our face just like that ! Ah bear was telling me she feels so touched for the moment. haha..
Oh well , nothing much but once again , CONGRATULATION !!
Dear JY , appreciate that you allow us to celebrate / share one of your happiest moment , I mention here one of your happiest moment because you will have more and more in future. :D
The moment u walked out from the hall with your graduation suit , our smile ( ah bear , ah net & me) hang on our face just like that ! Ah bear was telling me she feels so touched for the moment. haha..
Oh well , nothing much but once again , CONGRATULATION !!
* 猪朋狗友 ! Yeay !
* us with the pretty photographer ( ah net)
* Our mission complete ! ^.^ v
Sunday, April 1, 2012
Life , Live
A friend passed away caused of suicide. A shocking news.
Question to ourselves , how can this happen on him ?
Reason unknown but only himself.
The reason is no longer important as the fact will still remain.
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人说，有情人终成眷属。
是不是相爱的人都会是以后结婚呢？
是不是结婚的人，都是他们的最爱？
我相信，每个人都会遇到/遇过他们的最爱。
当你遇到你认为你最爱的人，幻想与他以后的以后，然后情不自禁的微笑。
遇到这个人，你会不顾一切厚脸皮地去表白/明示，哈哈， 天大的勇气！
喜欢的这个人，他的一切对你而言都是完美，你的眼里他没有什么不好的。
喜欢的这个人，他关怀的一句话，足以让你开心一整天，多么厉害。
喜欢的这个人，你可以为他牺牲少许，但没有半点投诉。
但是，
如果这个人，突然有一天对你冷淡，你会失落。
如果这个人，突然有一天你发现，他找到了他伴侣，你会失望。
如果这个人，突然有一天他结婚了，你就好像失恋一样糟糕，虽然你们没有开始过。
然而，
不久后，你会感谢这个人。
不久后，他还是会出现在你脑海，但，感觉不会是那么的热。
不久后，可能还会笑自己傻，可是好像都不会后悔。
不久后，已经是十年后的事情，可能你也属于别人的伴侣了或人家的家长。
他就是多么的强大，多么的魔力。毕生难忘。
人生不就是这样吗？ 你最想要的，不一定会拥有。你拥有的，未必是最想要的。
知足的人，会很安然的接受。
完美主义者，想必不管如何都会弄到手为止吧。
人本来就是被人打败，不管在工作上，感情上，物质上，策略上，都没有常胜。
拿得起，放得下，其实是很大学问。
放不放得下，还是得问自己吧。
矛盾。
有句话，we have to be flexible ， 我还在想flexible 到底要点在哪里啊？
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