Monday, February 7, 2011

Tell Me About It

Does a married couple love each other the most ?

I am starting to have doubts in this.
Married couple majority love each other yet it might just because they are tired to find another person who suit them better in life.
They decided to get married just for the sake of getting married , to settle down, to have another stage of life, so that they are not lonely in future when they are old. In fact, human need a life time partner.

We can see a lot single ladies who decided to stay alone and not rely on man. Yes, they might not need a man yet they need someone to be with, regardless whoever. Marry to a man its just to hold the " Official " status of someone, BUT so what ? Its that love ?
To avoid being called as slut , so might as well I go marry someone ?
I don't know about this, different people having different perception. I don't judge.
I am watching so many live cases.
A 5 years couple can call it off before a month to their marriage date.
3 years , and so what ? She told him ,don't tell me you wanna change for me now, I have gave you enough time to adjust but you weren't.
1 year , I still love him but he don't love me anymore, she cried.

I don't judge them because all happens with reasons , regardless are they valid / logic reason.
Do not hold it back when a sad decision is made, it will not be a bliss even though the relationship continues.

Don't blame me of not speaking properly to you , I failed this because of you.
My tolerance is at its beyond.
Stop saying I am difficult , which I don't see it as a description on me. Not even a single dot.
I don't come out a perfect solution , I am not a perfectionist.
Fuck off with your logic and sense to cover your guilt.
If I leave, its not about not loving you but I am giving up.
Or maybe I should love you less just to safeguard myself.
I think I have done enough , like seriously.

Oh well, tell me about it.


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